Often we ask employees "how did things go" or something like that. In essence it opens the door to a potential negative response such as "OK, but ... here is comes the negative part". We teach in our Progress Coaching Training System a unique question called a "self-actualized" question where employees have the answers framed for them but only in a positive tense. For example, here are two questions a sales manager could ask a sales person about their ability or need to handle a price objection with a specific client:
Normal question: "What are you going to do with that prospect's price objection"?
Self-Actualized Question: "What are you going to do to successfully address that prospect's price objection"?
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