The Progress Coaching Blog

    The Ideal Coaching Conversation

    December 14, 2013 Posted by : Tim Hagen
    0 comment

    describe the image

    You are contemplating introducing a coaching program for your managers but they are reluctant and quite frankly fearful of how they are going to incorporate it into their already busy schedule.  Chances are that managers are already doing some form of coaching.  Coaching is about helping employees perform better on a day-to-day basis.

    Managers should consider the conversations they are already having with their employees.  A typical conversation might go something like this:  Manager – Good morning Mary, what does your schedule look like today?  Mary – Hi Bill, I am continuing to work on that proposal for ABC Company.  Manager – How is that going for you?   Mary -  Oh, it is coming along but finding the right way to strategically price the service over the next five years is frustrating.  Manager -   Well, you know my door is open if you need some advice.  I have an extremely busy day today so I am having secretary take all my calls.


    That 30 second engagement between a manager and an employee is typical and ineffective.  If the manager were to take time to coach the employee’s concern, the employee would have a much more productive day, feel valued by the manager and generally be motivated to continue performing at a high level.

    At Sales Progress A Training Reinforcement Company, we use tried and true coaching types and techniques that are useful in varying situations. One of our highly effective techniques is the use of coaching questions and strategic interactions.  Conversations happen all day between managers and employees but are they effective, engaging and significant? 

    In the above scenario, based on the busy schedule of the manager that day, Sales Progress might suggest that rather than ask Mary a close ended question, ask a rating question.


    For example, Mary, on a scale of 1-5 (1 being very uncomfortable and 5 being very comfortable) how would you rate your comfort level in fine tuning this proposal to meet your deadline?  Mary, in turn might  say (2 – uncomfortable).  This is an opportunity for the busy manager to utilize a coaching technique.  In this circumstance, peer-to-peer coaching would be ideal as it saves the manager time and leverages other resources and expertise.  Mary will benefit from a coworkers help and appreciate her manager for hearing her concern and acting on it. Incidentally, the manager spent the same amount of time as in the original scenario but the results of coaching are positive and productive. 

    Every conversation is an ideal opportunity to coach employees and the reality is that the outcome will either be positive or negative based on the type of conversation you choose to have. Managers who are fearful of coaching need to consider whether or not their current form of engagement with their employees is working.  


    Download White Paper:  How to Use Coaching to  Motivate Your Staff


    Coaching Attitudes in the Workplace ... Works!
    What Does it Take to Become a Good Coach?

    About Author

    Tim Hagen
    Tim Hagen

    Tim Hagen founded Progress Coaching, a Training Reinforcement Partner Company, in 1997. His entrepreneurial career began in college leading to positions in sales, sales management, and sales training for small and large corporations, and eventually ownership of several training companies. Tim is often a keynote speaker at companies teaching the value of coaching and conversations in the workplace. He possesses a unique combination of hands-on experience, academics, and innovative insight to solve the industry’s most common challenges specific to workplace performance. Tim holds a bachelor’s degree in Adult Education and Training from the University of Wisconsin, Milwaukee.

    Related Posts
    Balancing AI Efficiency and Human Touch in the Workplace
    Mastering Feedback: The EAT Method for Personal and Professional Growth
    Embracing the AI Revolution: Insights from Shark Tank's Kevin O'Leary on Transforming Life and Work

    Leave a Reply